Feeling overwhelmed by your endless to-do list during divorce? Trust me, I get it. One of the best things I did was finding ways to offload tasks that were eating up my time.
First, just so you know, I’m not getting compensated for recommending these services—this is purely based on my experience.
How Grocery Delivery During Divorce Can Save You Time
One of my favorite solutions? Grocery delivery during divorce. I’ve been using Walmart+ for the last six months, and honestly, I can’t imagine going back to traditional shopping. With a minimum order of $30 to skip the delivery fee, it’s easy to hit that threshold given how grocery prices are these days. Plus, it’s great for avoiding impulse buys.
Time is Precious
Between running a business, parenting, and just life in general, grocery shopping takes a serious chunk out of my day. My round-trip commute to the store is 45 minutes—time I now save by ordering online. Add in the 30 minutes to an hour I would spend wandering the aisles, and I’m getting back hours every month!
A Real-Life Example: My Busy Household
I live in a full house where almost every meal is cooked at home. I’m the chef, and my workweek is far from the standard 40 hours. On top of that, I’m recovering from a strained rotator cuff, so lugging heavy items like 40-pound bags of dog food or cases of bottled water doesn’t appeal. Grocery delivery eliminates that hassle. The bonus? I don’t forget key items while shopping—a win for anyone who’s driven home only to realize they forgot something crucial.
Car Pickup for Big Hauls
Another option I love is delivery to your car. I use this when I’m stocking up on bulky items like paper towels, toilet paper, and cleaning supplies. Not having to worry about frozen items thawing in a delivery car or tipping a driver for a massive haul makes this a convenient choice. It’s not flawless, but any issues I’ve had—like missing items or the occasional incorrect product—were quickly resolved by customer service.
Is It Perfect? No, But It’s Worth It
I’ve had a few small hiccups. Once, I received some low-carb pasta I didn’t order (though I wasn’t charged), and I’ve had bananas arrive bruised or a torn bag of cereal. But in the grand scheme of things, it’s minor. These errors are rare, and I’m pleased with the overall convenience. Yes, there was one instance of a two-hour delivery delay, but that’s been the exception, not the rule.
Tipping: A Surprise Factor
When I first signed up, I didn’t realize tipping the Walmart+ delivery driver was a thing, but now I’ve grown used to it. I typically tip around 10%, which seems fair.
Costco to the Rescue
I’m also a big fan of Costco, though it’s located across town, and getting there feels like a major trek, so I don’t use my annual membership as often as I’d like to. I recently discovered they offer free two-day delivery on dry goods with a minimum order. Yes, the prices online are a bit higher than in-store, but for the convenience of having their Kirkland paper towels, dishwasher tabs, and detergent delivered to my door? Worth it. They also offer Instacart for dry goods as well as perishables like eggs and frozen foods, though prices vary from the warehouse.
Lighten Your Mental Load
If you’re feeling time-strapped or overwhelmed, consider giving grocery delivery during divorce a try. It’s one less ball to juggle and frees up time to focus on what matters most—whether that’s work, family, or simply catching your breath. Honestly, I wish I’d done it sooner.
If you’re looking for more ways to reduce stress during divorce, check out my blog on divorce communication strategies. Pausing, calming and focusing on the facts Clear, calm communication is key to making the process smoother.
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